We've been married in 2001, after 2 years of our marriage he changed he doesn't hug me anymore he never kissed me until today... our sexual life is okay but it seems lacking... before, when we make love he kisses me and embraces me first but now he never do it anymore... he's not the man I married before... I don't know him anymore... I missed the old him and I can't tell him how I feel I don't know how... all I want is his warmth and the old things he does to me 11 years ago... sometimes I may ask am I okay or maybe I'm going crazy...

Communication is one of the most important things in marriage. Be honest with him tell him you would like to talk. Don't criticize him tell him how YOU feel not how he makes you feel.He may not realize that there is a problem. You will feel better and less tormented if you open up.