Hi all, this is now my 3rd question, thanks to all the advice I am going to tell my ex husband I can no longer date him or whatever you call it we are doing... incase you didn't read my other posts basically he is in an out of my life for 5 yrs always coming back to me saying he needs me then to say he will never marry or live 2-gether and won't spend the night cause he isn't comfortable... know hom total of 12 yrs... both 37 its hard to do but has to be done I'm always so moody knowing this is our future or hoping he wants more, so tired anyway how do I tell him not sure what to say or how to say it any pointers? Not that it matters now, but he told me yesterday he likes it when we don't see each other everyday cause it makes him more happy to c me... aahhhhh... thanx in advance god bless

Just tell him you need, expect and deserve more. And you won't tolerate anything less than alive in man. Point blank you have to get tough. Life is tooooooooooo short to not get what you want out of it. Drop the grasshopper mentality and be the queen that you are meant to be. Please rate this answer.

This is easier than you think as he hasn't made you happy after all this time he won't ever. Tell him to get lost. That simple.