In the midst of the wonderful custody battle I was told some news this weekend that shocked me... My stepdaughters grandmother and my ex mother in law plus my really good friend all work together in the same nursing home. We went to drop my stepdaughters off with their grandmother and she said she needed to talk with us. Conversation starts and we soon find out my ex mother in law went to an LPN at the nursing home saying she was "concerned" for her granddaughter (my oldest biological daughter) who has been having uti`s a lot lately and wanted to know what the signs of sexual abuse were because her stepfather (my husband) is capable of doing something like that.

I am appalled at this. I'm busting my along with my husband to get my custody back and now this is sparking up. What should we do? Our next court date is Nov 29 2012 and we have loads of evidence to support placing custody of my girls with us again but I'm scared utterly sick at the risk of losing my girls to this. I know allegations like that do not go ignored. Please help.

(You have numerous past posts about custody and GAL and so on. It would be best if you give a short summary of the situation.)
You should get a written statement from the doctor treating her UTI.
You need a lawyer, if you don't have one. This is serious.

Were in tribal so getting a lawyer is next to impossible. I went n got an emergency order started because ex husband had numerous gfs over. That was 2 weeks ago n since then its gotten worse.