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HikariSenryu
Nov 7, 2012, 03:05 PM
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about eight months. We started to be intimate, but before we started to have intercourse he got up to get a condom. I saw him put it on. He kept slipping out when we started; I stopped him because it hurt and when I grabbed him I realized he wasn't wearing the condom anymore. I was so upset and he just said " I thought you knew I took it off." After that he said sorry and that he thought I wouldn't mind. After that I just went home and haven't spoken to him. Now I'm worried about the possibillity of getting pregnant. It's been three hours since I got home and my stomach has started to hurt a little bit. He didn't ejaculate and we didn't get far because he kept slipping, but I don't know. I've heard of precum causing pregnancy, but intercourse didn't go further than a few shallow thrusts. I'm going to go get a morning after pill tomorrow. I honestly can't believe it , I don't know what to do about the relationship now...

Homegirl 50
Nov 7, 2012, 04:40 PM
How old are you two. Sounds like someone either didn't know what he was doing or he was trying to go against your wishes and have sex without a condom.
I suggest you leave sex alone for a while and certainly with him.

HikariSenryu
Nov 8, 2012, 10:07 AM
I'm 21 years old. He sent me a message this morning and said he knew that he was wrong for that, but I was overreacting.

Homegirl 50
Nov 8, 2012, 12:03 PM
You are not over reacting and he was wrong. At his age he ought to know better. Leave him alone. Does not sound like a person who is sorry or respectful.