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lilfishgirl
Nov 4, 2012, 02:24 AM
Thing is, I have only kissed a girl because she's by best friend. She niw claims she has feelings for me and loves me... but that just freaks me out because I don't share those emotional feelings like I do with guys...
I can't imagine myself with her, the idea scares me, but does that make me a lesbian because I enjoyed kissing her?
I am also scared ill kiss a guy I REALLY love and I won't like it as much... im freaking out... I don't have anything against gay people I just love checking guys out and flirting with them!
I don't check out other girls, in fact when I see one that's pretty I get jealous :/ I wish I was as pretty as her... wheras when I see a guy I'm like wow he's FIT.
HELP PLEASE. IM SOOOO CONFUSED.

tickle
Nov 4, 2012, 02:56 AM
What do you mean it 'turnd you'? Just because you kissed a girl doesn't mean you are a lesbian. If you can't imagine yourself with her, tell her, best way to handle the situation.

Don't get your shirt in a knot if you don't want to be a lesbian. It takes more then a kiss to be a lesbian.

lilfishgirl
Nov 4, 2012, 03:27 AM
I meamt that it turned me on, but I don't have emotional feelings for her like I would do for a guy

J_9
Nov 4, 2012, 03:29 AM
What about this guy?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/help-like-guy-havent-ever-met-714032.html

lilfishgirl
Nov 4, 2012, 03:37 AM
What about this guy?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/help-like-guy-havent-ever-met-714032.html

I haven't met him though an I really like him :/