Forever7
Oct 28, 2012, 09:00 PM
Over the summer my best friend set me up with her guy friend that she use to like. I asked her before even talking to him if she had any feelings left for him and she said no. She had a boyfriend of her own and I was sure she didn't want to lose him. But a couple of weeks after me and this guy started talking her boyfriend broke up with her. While that happened the guy she set me up with stopped texting me for a few days and I wondered why and he wouldn't text me. I was scared that I was annoying so I never texted him first. Then my best friend asked him why he wasn't texting me, and he said he has a girlfriend now and that I never texted him. My best friend told him that I'm shy and I thought I annoyed him. Well at our softball game my best friend told me that she likes him now. An I got mad. Ha. But he kept texting me telling me he was sorry and that he was stupid and to please let him talk to me. But I wouldn't, for three straight days he tried, then I told my friend to press send on a message I wanted to send him so she did. So he texted me later that night and told me he broke up with his girlfriend for me because he couldn't stop thinking about me and he really didn't know his girlfriend all that well and he was bisexual, and dyed her hair pink, and was just different from what he remembered. Then he asked me if we could start talking again. I said that I didn't know, but we dd anyway. Little did I know that him and my best friend(the one that set us up) wasn't OK with it an still liked him. He would text her when we started dating when he wasn't texting me all the time. She'd never tell me. She'd tell me that they talk about things, bad things, and I was like OK? He talks to me about some things, and he was like no no mines worse, an I asked her what it's about, she said its none of your business it's between me and him, and I said uh yeah it's my business he's my boyfriend. Then I find out at her party thg he's texting her an he wouldn't text me all night. Then he texts her an says that he loves me but still gets horny over her. So I'm bawling my eyes out Andy other real best fiend has to take my "best friends" phone to text him and tell him that she told me and that he needs to stop. So I was going to dump him, but I felt like I'd never felt before just thinking about it. I felt sick and weak and I was shaking an I wanted to throw up. We got it all straightened out and they were still texting. I told him that I wasn't OK with it at all. So he deleted her contact an was ignoring her until she asks me if they can start talking again and I say no, and she throws a fit and tells him that she hate me and to go f*** myself and tells him that I've been flirting with another guy, and I hadn't even talked to one. So then she apologizes after he texts her and tells her to. So they hadn't texted since. Then just the other day they ran into each other at Walmart and she texts him an asks why and I still have to read the messages they exchange and he promised me that I could see them. She goes on complaining to ALL my other friends that she doesn't understand why I'm not OK with it when a real friend would, a real friend wouldn't have talked about having sex with my boyfriend with my boyfriend and a real friend would've told me what they talk about. He never told me and I still want to know. And she still makes snide remarks about why. And she still tried to flirt with him an will NOT stop flirting or texting him. I don't even consider her a best friend anymore... She had it all planned that when her and her boyfriend broke up that my boyfriend would break up with me and she would be with him. What a friend? Right? So what should I do to make sure he backs off completely and stops putting herself all over him??