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bbrown05193
Oct 21, 2012, 08:16 PM
My dad is in the hosiptal, ill. My boyfriend showed me a ring and said he is going to get down on one knee and propose to me in front of my dad. I was in shock. He then said, just kidding, the ring belongs to a friend and he was going to have it appraised for her.
I am very confuse. We have been together 1year and 2 months

teacherjenn4
Oct 21, 2012, 08:20 PM
What's the confusion? It wasn't nice at all, but there isn't a deadline after dating a certain period to propose. Have you talked about marriage? How old are both of you?

Fr_Chuck
Oct 21, 2012, 08:27 PM
It was a mean thing to do, and he should know that it hurt you greatly. I would have serious issues dating anyone that could be so heartless as to do this

J_9
Oct 21, 2012, 09:52 PM
That was a very cruel thing to do. Has he apologized yet?

ArmstrongMiller
Oct 21, 2012, 11:59 PM
Maybe you don't need to take it seriously.

joypulv
Oct 22, 2012, 02:49 AM
How would we know, based on so little? Maybe he really did buy the ring for you, and maybe he thought proposing to you with your dad present would somehow be a nice gesture for your dad to see, especially if he is seriously ill. And then when he saw the look on your face he lied about it. Who knows? I don't understand why there is such a lack of communication and so much confusion. Talk to HIM, not strangers online.