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ss11
Oct 14, 2012, 06:00 AM
I have been in married with my husband for 2 years. I am 24 years and he is 30 years old. It is not a love marriage, we just knew each other for 3 months and we decided to get married without even thinking. Right after I got married I didn't find enough love from him. The kind of love a girl wants from a man. I want to be cared more. But he didn't use to give me time though we were newly married. He used to spend most of his time with his friends everyday. And I used to feel lonely with his family. Since that time I am not happy with him. Its not that I never said to him but everyday I complained, he never listened to me. After a year of our wedding he came Dubai and 3 months later I followed him. In that 3 months time I realized he is not the one that I can live my life. I am so unsatisfied and I told him so many times. We are now in Dubai but staying separately. I don't love him the way I used to do before and I realize he started loving me more. I am hurt already his love makes me no difference. What should I do?? Please I need some suggestions.

Homegirl 50
Oct 14, 2012, 09:17 AM
You are living separately why? For all intents and purposes you are not living a married life. Why are you still married? Would you consider counseling?

ss11
Oct 15, 2012, 04:39 AM
You sure, if you could help me.

joypulv
Oct 15, 2012, 04:53 AM
Are there marriage counselors in Dubai? Is that where you are from originally?