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Broken24
Oct 12, 2012, 01:28 AM
My girlfriend broke up with me out of no where. I don't know what happened or why. It was random. She told me she needed space so I respected that. At the time she was dealing with much stress such as going to work full time going to school full time, and having to go through the unfortunate event of an ectopic pregnancy. I feel at fault here because I wasn't there with her when throughout that. We were in different states at the moment. We were only apart for about 2 weeks, and she knew I was saving up money to move to where she was. While she was obviously freaking out about the whole ectopic pregnancy, I told her not to worry that I'm leaving in that same week so I can be there with you 100% of the way. The next day I call her and she tells me don't move over here, I was lost and confused and thought to myself why? I need to be there with you especially now. That's when she told me that she needed space to figure out what's going on inner head. Then I asked her why, we've gone through a lot together and overcome so many obstacles to get where we are. She said to me, " I just don't feel the same anymore. I care for you a lot and I don't want to hurt you, but i just don't love you anymore." I broke down and told her so just like that, we're going to through everything away? She said I'm sorry. I didn't know what to do, I would post on fb and Instagram in not giving up on us and I know I can move in, I just choose not. She saw that and called me and said please stop posting these things, you're only making it harder for me. Ok I'll stop. I also said, just know like I told you when we first started dating, ill always still be there for you. We didn't talk for about 3 days. I wouldn't call her or text her. She started calling me and texting me. Now she does it everyday like if we had never broken up, the only difference is we don't call each other babe or say I love you when we end our conversation. I'm just lost and confused, I don't know what's going on anymore was it my fault that she keeps calling me because I said I'll always be there for you? She's always bringing back old memories also. Can someone please help me and just give me some advice on what I should do. Because I'm still in love with her. She means the world to me. I just wish I knew what was going on through her head. Also when I don't pick up or text her back. She'll always leave a voicemail or sad emoticon when I don't text back. Sorry for the story guys. I haven't really vented to anyone and I thought it was about time I did. Any advice will help thank you.

Fr_Chuck
Oct 12, 2012, 01:51 AM
She is just dragging you on.

So she calls, stop answering, don't open another email. Don't answer another call, don't read another text. Make her understand that broke up is broke up.