Ok so I'm kind of freaking out... I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time, he was also a virgin. Ive been on birth control for 17 days now. On Saturday so about 2 day now he had sex with me for the third time, this time he had put his penis in me unprotected for a couple seconds... it was still in the very beginning, and his penis felt dry. Afterwards he proceeded to finger me and he noticed that there was blood on his finger, he also has a tendency to be a little rough, ( he actually broke my hymen before by fingering me). I don't get my period until the 23 and the blood doesn't smell like period blood, its also bright red and lighter than a period, but I have light cramps, but my vagina doesn't itch. Am I pregnant, is it a sort of infection? Is my period early because of the birth control?

Birth control affects everyone differently. When I had a birth control implant in my arm, I was bleeding (spotting) for 6 months! My doctor told me that it was a completely normal thing to happen. Also, the pill can have that sort of effect too. I don't think that it is anything to worry about, but if you are still concerned, try a pregnancy test.