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JUSSAYING
Oct 5, 2012, 03:54 PM
Child's farther is not on birth cert due to domestic violence and the mental stress he put on mother at time of birth and has paid 0 to the up bringing of child I would prefur the mother stuggle on benefits 9his words) but yet wants name on birth cert and claims he loves his child an will do anything for yet has done nothing from the day he found out he would be a farther bare in mind this monster has called social services out of spite because he didn't want to go through mediation as mum thought it was best as they were not getting along an didn't want the child tarnished by the mess she found her self in they came an seen family home checked food clothes bedding cleanlyness of home they seen it was a mallicious act an closed case he also wished death on to mum while giving birth an died on birthing table an hoped the child died an would never be born and this man now has a court judgement to stay away from mother due to numerous assults in front of child she has tried to do contact centres an meet public places but was told it wouldn't be suitable to meet his needs he also would like to have child over night mother has a problem with this as he has probably spent no more then 3 months with child the child is now 23 months an does not no him she is currently going through court with child's farther due to criminal damage assult and burgalry as he stole money from her knowing he hasn't ever brought a nappie or rumper for this child his child he says he loves an cares for I'm not being funny but does he still have his rights knowing hed leave child's mother bruised and battered in front of his child or even the fact that the child does not no him to be the dad due to dads behaviour but yet blames the mother for his actions does somebody like that have rights to come into a child's life an press the destrut button an teach the child that way of life like its something to be proud of because my veiw is this why would you want to pour that poison into a life that is so innocent is that a good role model for the child the mother has taken alotttt believe weather it be publicy or behind close doors is she right to stick to her veiws a contact centre is best even though this man deserves nothing as she owes him nothing as he has never lifted anything or contributed to this innocent life

Fr_Chuck
Oct 5, 2012, 05:59 PM
He has all the rights the custody order has given him.

He can file in court and ask for a court order for visitation, she can fight it.
He will get at least supervised visits, if she can prove he is a danager to the child. If she can not prove he is a danger to the child ( he is a danger to her, but has he ever hurt the child and is he a threat. If she proves he is a danger to the child he will still get visits, but they would be required to be supervised, normally by someone approved by the court.

If she has not went to get a child support order though the court, he really does not owe any money yet. He owes officially when there is a court order.

Since there is no sentences, not... used, no paragraphs and regular normal english grammar, the post is hard to read and understand. But it appears he is a bad person, but wants to be a father, he can enforce his rights though court, she can fight to restrict them, but they are not taken away

ScottGem
Oct 6, 2012, 05:20 AM
Not sure what your question is. As noted, your post appears to be a rant and not a very coherent one.

But the bottom line is a father has all the rights of any father, but may need to go to court to enforce those rights. If the mother doesn't believe he should have rights, then she has to prove that to a court.