My boyfriend is facing a parole violation. So, he might be heading to prison, He asked me if I would marry him in a jail, I told him I don't want to if I have to deal with his debt. And I think if we did that, I would have to deal with his debt. Can someone help me please!!

Only do something because YOU want to sweetie! I know you love him, my man is facing time too, but ask yourself is that what you realllly want? To marry him in prison??

Well I do love him a lot but if I marry him any debt he owes do I get that debt if we get married

Anyone else want to answer it

only do something because YOU want to sweetie! i know you love him, my man is facing time too, but ask yourself is that what you realllly want? to marry him in prison???

So do I get his debt if me and him get married?

anyone else wanna answer it

Please be patient. We are only volunteers here. We do not get paid to sit behind a bunch of computers to answer questions. This is a global website and most of the people who answer are most likely sleeping right now.

That's fine I was asking the member who replied

Also, it would help the legal EXPERTS if they knew your general location.

thats fine i was asking the member who replied

Actually you said...


anyone else wanna answer it

So you were asking for replies other than the person who replied. That is why I advised you that we are volunteers.

Okay its fine I don't care who answers. Im IN Iowa. And I really don't want to marry him in prison but I'm going to bed leave comments.

In Iowa a spouse is not liable for the debts of the other.

But you should not marry him at this time, you already have doubts so wait till he gets out and be sure you still want to then.