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olivias1082
Oct 4, 2012, 06:38 PM
My crush that goes to my church likes me and my best friend but mainly my best friend. My friend doesn't like him and I think he is cute. I feel like we were mean't to be together. What do I do?

C0bra_M3nace
Oct 4, 2012, 06:44 PM
Nothing. If he's not interested in you then he's not interested in you. You shouldn't even really be dating at your age anyway. Focus on school and being a kid, relationships will come later in life.

olivias1082
Oct 4, 2012, 06:47 PM
He doesn't hate me or dislike me he just. Likes my friend a little better

C0bra_M3nace
Oct 4, 2012, 06:49 PM
He doesnt hate me or dislike me he just. Likes my friend a little better

Again, there's nothing you can do. He likes who he likes and there's nothing that can really change. If it bothers you then you may need to find a new friend because nothing good comes of jealousy.

olivias1082
Oct 4, 2012, 06:53 PM
She doesn't like him back

C0bra_M3nace
Oct 4, 2012, 07:00 PM
she doesnt like him back

Then you really have nothing to worry about. There will always be people you crush on that aren't really interested in you. You just have to learn to deal with it.

olivias1082
Oct 4, 2012, 07:02 PM
Then you really have nothing to worry about. There will always be people you crush on that aren't really interested in you. You just have to learn to deal with it.

He is I know it.

C0bra_M3nace
Oct 4, 2012, 07:08 PM
he is i know it.

You're 12 years old. You shouldn't be involved in situations like this. Stop trying to grow up so fast and enjoy your childhood. Things become a mess when you start dealing with relationships. You also need to be communicating with your parents. Make sure they're okay with you going out with boys.

olivias1082
Oct 4, 2012, 07:10 PM
What about my friend

C0bra_M3nace
Oct 4, 2012, 07:18 PM
what about my friend

Don't worry about your friend. Don't throw away your childhood for boys and relationships. Focus on your studies and your life and enjoy being a kid because it doesn't last long. You'll have plenty of time for relationships later on in life.

olivias1082
Oct 4, 2012, 07:20 PM
Thank you even though I can.

C0bra_M3nace
Oct 4, 2012, 07:22 PM
thankyou even though i can.

You can what?

olivias1082
Oct 4, 2012, 07:24 PM
There's this kid who is my friend and I love him as in love,he likes me but he also likes my best friend what do I do.

I truly love him

C0bra_M3nace
Oct 4, 2012, 07:29 PM
Firstly, stop making new threads on the same issue. Secondly, you're not in love with this boy. You can't love anyone you have not had a formal relationship with. Stop trying to grow up so fast before you get yourself in trouble.

Homegirl 50
Oct 4, 2012, 07:36 PM
I doubt you truly love him but he does not feel the same about you so you do nothing and get over it
There will no doubt be someone else next month

saltlifek
Oct 6, 2012, 11:47 AM
You seem quite young, he probably does not feel the same way. Instead of asking for strangers opinions, go ask him yourself, he's the only one who can give you a full honest answer, hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst. Good luck!

olivias1082
Oct 14, 2012, 11:41 AM
Thanks