Me and my girl had some problems earlier in the week. We haven't really talked, and I didn't try to contact her till yesterday. She didn't respond. Today, she came into my work and acted like everything was normal and said I was being mean to her. What the heck?? It went from her ignoring me to her thinking I was ignoring her and now I am really confused!

She got mad and now she isn't. Pay attention and talk it over in a calm manner and say your sorry and don't do it again.

She texted me at 7 this mornng saying that she didn't want to date anymore but didn't want me to ignore her either. She tried making me feel bad by bringing up something she did for me on Tuesday after we had our argument. I texted her back and said I need some space and that I am not capable of going from a sexual relationship to just being able to hang around like nothing ever happened between us. I want her back, but I think the only way for me to do this is to show her what she lost, (Ignore her). Just looking for a second opinion. Also, how can girls be so greedy that she doesn't want to be with me, but she still wants my attention?

Games beget games and talking solves misunderstandings. Take your pick.

Well, look at it this way: what you're doing (or not doing) now is getting her attention, so go right on and do what you've been doing, i.e. "ignoring her" , even if it seems like you're "being mean."

She texted me at 7 this mornng saying that she didn't want to date anymore but didn't want me to ignore her either.

Is that normal for her to be up at that hour? If not maybe something else was going on like an all night party or returning home from somewhere she shouldn't have been


She tried making me feel bad by bringing up something she did for me on Tuesday after we had our arguement. I texted her back and said I need some space and that I am not capable of going from a sexual relationship to just being able to hang around like nothing ever happened between us. I want her back, but I think the only way for me to do this is to show her what she lost, (Ignore her). Just looking for a second opinion.

I agree with you. I also get the feeling she is still carrying some of the anger for this fight or probably something else deeper so time away will probably do you both good.


Also, how can girls be so greedy that she doesn't want to be with me, but she still wants my attention?

I think she is emotionally attached so she doesn't want the shock of the break up and needs you around for to emotionally come down as opposed to have it suddenly thrust upon her.