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adorablemia
Sep 25, 2012, 02:04 PM
He always wants my attention, like he will always try to play fight me. I'm trying to avoid him because of the things I've heard about him from other girls about how he is so dirty and he's done dirty things to so many girls. He will try to get in your pants and bla bla. Me however, I don't like having an opinion of someone I don't know about so keeping those ideas of him in my head I'm trying to keep it on a level with him instead of ignoring him completely because he is in most of my classes. First day, he would stare at me up and down fully trying to check me out. I noticed him letting me talk first in class saying stuff like ladies first. But as the days went on... He waited for me one time, and walked up home with me and asked me some questions I felt him come at me too strong! Asking me about my sexual experiences, so the next day I felt to avoid him and try to give him straight forward answers so he thinks I'm not interested. So last week he asked me if I was OK and why I was being quite around him... I said I'm fine. Now this week he has been trying to get my attention so badly, like he tries to call at me and say my name try to read what my necklace says or he keeps pulling his tong at me... When I spoke to a boy he asked me why I talk to him lol. He asked me if I have a boyfriend... Today he tried to play fight me and he came all the way up to my face I felt his chest on my chest I felt awkward as hell. So before our last lesson, we were waiting outside our class and he tried to play fight me again and asked me... why are you sooo moooody... Then he tried to joke about me and I didn't like what he I thought it was disrespectful and rude I asked him to apologise first he was teasing me and said no then he said... Are you upset? And I replied saying yes so he said sorry to me and I said apology accepted. What is this guys deal with me? He tries to tease me more than any other girl in the class. When he sits next to other girls he's hyper with them but not so hyper as he is around me (I try to stay quite to avoid him) He is loud and tries to talk to me or stare at me and wink at me and all sorts. Im sort of growing a thing for him now, I think I like him? Even though I'm trying to avoid him because I'm not into messing about with players and he is one but the tactics he is playing with me I think I'm developing some unknown crush on him . Does he like me or is he after my pants? The more I try to ignore him and not give him the attention he wants the more he wants to do this to me. What's going on? After him saying sorry to me, he seemed really down in class then he didn't look at me when he saw me in the library after. What is his motive with me? What are the signs of a guy that likes you?

LadySam
Sep 25, 2012, 03:49 PM
This post bears a striking resemblance to another recent post.
I don't get it, is this how boys act now?
How old are you?
While not wanting to judge based on what someone else has said, I noticed in your post that you yourself thought him rude, disrespectful and at times made you uncomfortable.
As for the play fighting, he needs to respect your personal space, that is not acceptable.
He has no right to ask about your sexual experience. I hope you told him that.
I don't think you have a player on your hands, annoying and obnoxious, yes, but a player? Nah!
I think your crush can be explained as curiosity, but don't let his type of flattery (I use that word loosely) sway what you already know.
If you have the idea that he only wants to get into your pants then you are probably right.