Hi,
My Husband had love relationship with 3 girls in his lyf... When I came in to his lyf he confessed me. 2girls cheated on hm and one was married woman with kids in a big job profyl n 5yr elder to him. When before our engagement he tld me.. that he is nt a virgin. I immensely love him and felt his pain and accepted hm as he is a very good human being and loyal one. Now we are married. He is nt in cntact with thse persons bt smtyms do tlk about thm to me... what thy used to do and al.. He is in a kind keep telling all about his past to me as he loves me a lot and don't want to hide nethng frm me.
Bt I feel pain at heart nw. I was a virgin till we married. My husband loves me bt keeps admiring about that married woman by telling me hw she was. Thy had met over net. Sh was frm abroad bt was quite in a good job profyl and rich by hme to drop in to meet hm few tyms... I know that relation was over before I met hm. He says she was just perfect bt was married already hnce he cldnt select hm.. ths is making me curious about her. I assume her in my dreams, day and ni8 cmpare with myself. I don't know hw sh usd to look, bt sh really had a charisma my husband speaks of... nowadays m just trying to becme lyk her. I don't know why bt m in my mind copying her to impress my husband. M also good by education bt its pains in my heart a lot whnvr my husband cnfess evry detail about his past to me... I love my husband a lot.. I feel that woman is alive in our tlks.. I desparately want to trace her and meet her..

What are you still doing with this man? He's not over this woman and unless he decides to wake up and stop caring about her than he's going to be talking and thinking about her the rest of your lives together.

Why are you putting yourself through a marriage that is making you second guess who you are? When are you going to draw the line and stop letting yourself be compared to people who shouldn't even be mentioned in your life?

I feel you need deep and serious mental health counseling, You are trying to become more like some girl from husbands past. You are obsessed and want to meet her ?


What should you do, tell him that if he mentions her one more time you are out the door, that you are not her and that if he does not forget her and give his health to you, he needs to find the door.

That is of course what you should do