After three months without any contact except for a letter that she porbably wasn't too happy with, how can I get through to her and get repect after all I did for her and her family. She was my real love and I know she loved me. But now she is leaving things estranged by not trying at all to keep n touch with me, and I feel as though she is childishly trying to keep me away threat tactics. Up to the last week we were together she claimed along with her mom and das that she still oved me, but then she did a 360 degree turn to get rid of this relationship. I knew her for one year begfore we dated, then our courtship was for about one year. I would like to say hello again and show her that I think our relationship was real and I wasn so in love with her as she should have known already . I still love her I was okder than her and she was so proud to have me . THNow I think she is gone for good. But I feel there is a way to get her back

You don't do anything, there is no closure, there is no making her do anything.

You have to stop worrying and thinking about her. You stop all contact, really all contac with her and move on.

No checking on Facebook, no text no talking to friends about her, you cut it off, find someone new and move on.

Thanks father I will try to process that