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bribri12
Sep 15, 2012, 07:50 AM
I've heard people say " never get into a relationship with a straight girl" and I kind of see why its so you can avoid questions and thoughts like these I'm so confused of what to do.

JudyKayTee
Sep 15, 2012, 08:49 AM
I've heard people say " never get into a relationship with a straight girl" and I kind of see why its so you can avoid questions and thoughts like these I'm so confused of what to do.


Why would people tell a straight male not to get into a relationship with a straight girl? What am I missing?

I think it depends on the relationship - if you are monogamous, you are monogamous. If you aren't, you aren't.

bribri12
Sep 15, 2012, 08:58 AM
Why would people tell a straight male not to get into a relationship with a straight girl? What am I missing?

I think it depends on the relationship - if you are monogamous, you are monogamous. If you aren't, you aren't.

No I've heard of people telling bi and lesbian girls not to get in a relationship with a straight girl

odinn7
Sep 15, 2012, 08:59 AM
You're confusing us.

You are a girl or a guy?

bribri12
Sep 15, 2012, 09:00 AM
You're confusing us.

You are a girl or a guy?

I'm a girl

JudyKayTee
Sep 15, 2012, 09:02 AM
I'm a girl


So you are a straight girl and your girlfriend is bi.

I don't think you're straight if you are female and she is female.

Please define straight for me.

odinn7
Sep 15, 2012, 09:02 AM
So you're just messing with us then, right?

How can you have a girlfriend while being a girl and still tell us that you're straight? There is no way that you can be straight if you have a girlfriend.

JudyKayTee
Sep 15, 2012, 09:08 AM
So you're just messing with us then, right?

How can you have a girlfriend while being a girl and still tell us that you're straight? There is no way that you can be straight if you have a girlfriend.


- Just when I think I have the birds and bees all straightened out something like this comes along.

odinn7
Sep 15, 2012, 09:11 AM
I hear that!

bribri12
Sep 15, 2012, 12:27 PM
Sorry it's a long complicated story behind this question I should have explained it better but forget it thanks though

odinn7
Sep 15, 2012, 12:33 PM
We're willing to listen if you're willing to tell.

Alty
Sep 15, 2012, 12:33 PM
Sorry its a long complicated story behind this question I should have explained it better but forget it thanks though

If you tell the truth then you don't need to explain.

We're all confused. You started by saying that your girlfriend is bi, and you're straight. So we all assumed that you're male. Now you're saying that you're female, and dating a girl. That means you're not straight, you're gay. That's fine, and we have no problem with that, we're just confused because you keep saying that you're straight.

So explain it. Explain what you mean by straight.

JudyKayTee
Sep 15, 2012, 12:58 PM
If you tell the truth then you don't need to explain.

We're all confused. You started by saying that your girlfriend is bi, and you're straight. So we all assumed that you're male. Now you're saying that you're female, and dating a girl. That means you're not straight, you're gay. That's fine, and we have no problem with that, we're just confused because you keep saying that you're straight.

So explain it. Explain what you mean by straight.


I don't understand why someone would take the time and trouble to open an account, get a user name and post a question that makes little sense, then leave when additional info is asked for - ?

Alty
Sep 15, 2012, 01:02 PM
I don't understand why someone would take the time and trouble to open an account, get a user name and post a question that makes little sense, then leave when additional info is asked for - ?

The only thing I can guess is that she wanted someone to agree with her, but couldn't make her story clear, and when we started questioning things that made no sense, she became frustrated. It's hard to keep your story straight if you're telling a story and not telling the truth.

Bottom line, she's either a straight male with a bi girlfriend, or a gay female with a bi girlfriend. There is no other option based on what she wrote. Since she claims to be female, dating a female, she's not straight by any means.

It's too bad she wasn't willing to clear that up for us.