lionsden123456
Sep 13, 2012, 09:22 PM
I just ended a 12 month relationship. I am trying to make heads and tails of the whole experience but seem to be coming up a bit short with the answers. Right from the start we knew there was something special between us. We moved gradually in the beginning but over time relationship intensified and grew stronger and stronger. I was a bit reluctant at first to date a women from a divorce with young children but over time I was able to look past her situation and trully believed we had a chance down the road.
While we only saw each other once or twice a week we talked every night and could communicate perfectly with one another, had fantastic chemistry, shared many great experiences, and bonded on so many levels. She had come from modest beginnings but married young to a man with tremendous wealth and financial resources. Her life was predictable and she never had to deal with financial stress. At the same time her life was empty, her marriage was empty, and she lacked passion, excitement, communication, and enjoyment in her marriage. I filled her life with everything that was missing but could not come close to providng the lifestyle she previously had in her marriage.
Over the past few months a series of events with her living situation caused her to vacate her house and move back in with her ex-husband. She was close to moving back out of his house but ultimately decided to stay. I have to move on but the whole experience troubles me. Was I wrong to date her in the first place? I am trying to grasp the learning experience here.
While we only saw each other once or twice a week we talked every night and could communicate perfectly with one another, had fantastic chemistry, shared many great experiences, and bonded on so many levels. She had come from modest beginnings but married young to a man with tremendous wealth and financial resources. Her life was predictable and she never had to deal with financial stress. At the same time her life was empty, her marriage was empty, and she lacked passion, excitement, communication, and enjoyment in her marriage. I filled her life with everything that was missing but could not come close to providng the lifestyle she previously had in her marriage.
Over the past few months a series of events with her living situation caused her to vacate her house and move back in with her ex-husband. She was close to moving back out of his house but ultimately decided to stay. I have to move on but the whole experience troubles me. Was I wrong to date her in the first place? I am trying to grasp the learning experience here.