I had sex three times in my life and it hurt so much so I wanted to check what's down there I did and found that my anus (maybe) is in the middle inside my vagina when I touch it it hurts a lot and I believe that it's the same pain that I felt during sex I would like to know if its really a serious problem? I'm too embarrassed to go see a gynecologist .

First of all, how old are you and in which county do you live?

Okay here is the scoop. Between your legs you have two labia, or lips. The outer larger one is called labia majora. Inside is your vaginal opening and above that is clitoris. We women have a very narrow perineum, which is the division between our anus and our vagina.

You probably felt too far back and touched your anal opening and if someone you had sex with entered there, yes it would hurt.

Okay here is the scoop. Between your legs you have two labia, or lips. The outer larger one is called labia majora. Inside is your vaginal opening and above that is clitoris. We women have a very narrow perineum, which is the division between our anus and our vagina.

You probably felt too far back and touched your anal opening and if someone you had sex with entered there, yes it would hurt.

But Its not too far just like 5 cm

First of all, how old are you and in which county do you live?

I am almost 20 years old and I live in France

Yes, your anus and your vaginal opening are very close together, but not connected in any way.

Yes, your anus and your vaginal opening are very close together, but not connected in any way.

I think my anus is swollen it hurt a lot

I think my anus is swollen it hurt a lot
Was this the first time you had sex with this man? Did he talk about not getting you pregnant?

Was this the first time you had sex with this man? Did he talk about not getting you pregnant?

I had sex three times with three different men and the last one was 4 months ago

If it hurts after that long of a time, you must go to a doctor. Something may have been torn. Have you had any bleeding or problems when you go to the bathroom?

If it hurts after that long of a time, you must go to a doctor. Something may have been torn. Have you had any bleeding or problems when you go to the bathroom?

No he didn't cause the problem I have no bleedings or anything it just that my anus hurt when its touched I can't have sex I feel unbearable pain I think maybe its because the anus is too far down my vagina, if that's the case what do you think would have caused the problem and how to fix it .

Ps: I don't know if it matters but I was never a virgin first time I checked I was 14 and I could easily put a tampon

No he didnt cause the problem i have no bleedings or anything it just that my anus hurt when its touched i can't have sex i feel unbearable pain i think maybe its because the anus is too far down my vagina, if thats the case what do you think would have caused the problem and how to fix it .

Ps: i dont know if it matters but i was never a virgin first time i checked i was 14 and i could easily put a tampon
Again, go to a doctor and let him or her explain what equipment you have and where things are. I don't think you understand. And you need the checkup because of the pain.

Again, go to a doctor and let him or her explain what equipment you have and where things are. I don't think you understand. And you need the checkup because of the pain.

Thank you I will try to do it as soon as possible

Thank you i will try to do it as soon as possible
And please let us know what is wrong (or I will have to fly to France and find you to ask you!).

But Its not too far just like 5 cm

Correct

No he didnt cause the problem i have no bleedings or anything it just that my anus hurt when its touched i can't have sex i feel unbearable pain i think maybe its because the anus is too far down my vagina, if thats the case what do you think would have caused the problem and how to fix it .

Ps: i dont know if it matters but i was never a virgin first time i checked i was 14 and i could easily put a tampon

You're a anus is behind your vagina

Go to the doctor! Or the ER! They are paid and trained to help you through any and every thing! Put the embarrassment aside!