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jsunshinekitty
Sep 13, 2012, 08:15 AM
So my boyfriend has a son and wants me to meet him, I'm nervous to because I don't want to get attached or get the baby attatched to me and things don't work out and he has to see another break-up... any advice on what to do? :/

Homegirl 50
Sep 13, 2012, 08:45 AM
How long have you been dating this guy?
If you are not ready to meet his son, say so. It is your choice. Ask him to give you reasons it's a good idea.
I was looking at some of your other post. How old are you?

jsunshinekitty
Sep 13, 2012, 09:15 AM
It's been a while I honestly lost track of how long its been but I know it's been less than a year though. I've told him but he thinks it's a good idea, I do want to meet his son but,nothng is ever certain especially with teens and I don't want to put his son through another break up he's already been through it with his mom and dad. And I'm 17.

Homegirl 50
Sep 13, 2012, 09:42 AM
How old is the guy?
I think you're right. Thus kid does not need to see a parade of women in and out of his dad's life.
Once and if your relationship reaches the year mark, you can think about it again.

jsunshinekitty
Sep 13, 2012, 10:03 AM
he's 17 going to 18 soon. And that's very true. =D