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odilians10
Aug 27, 2012, 12:42 PM
I met an older guy in February and we dated for 1m and I broke it off telling him I was working things out w/ an ex at that time. Did not communicate with him for about 3m, then went to visit his restaurant with a frd and decided to text hello. I did change my number and so he could not contact me, but he said he have been trying to get in touch w/me. We started communicating again for about 1m now and we ended up having sex once, things have been normal since, he response to my text and calls me, but what got me confused was I sent a text of if he could do me a favor and he said too many people do, No! He has been very supportive of my business venture and gives me good advice on what to do so I am confused as to why he didn't ask for the favor before he said NO. I am the kind of person that always thinks the worse and cut people off in a heart beat. Would it be a drastic decision to cut him off becos of this? Thanks
worried18
Sep 7, 2012, 09:44 AM
Hey there, you seem upset.. Is it possible he was just joking around? If not maybe he was just having a really bad day?
Are you annoyed because he didn't help you or because he didn't even ask what the favor was?
odilians10
Sep 26, 2012, 06:20 PM
Hey there, you seem upset.. Is it possible he was just joking around? If not maybe he was just having a really bad day?
Are you annoyed because he didn't help you or because he didn't even ask what the favor was?
I guess both, but after talking to him, he was saying no to another question I asked earlier, that's why I hate text...
Homegirl 50
Sep 26, 2012, 07:16 PM
People need to start talking to each other. And you need to stop jumping to negative conclusions
odilians10
Sep 26, 2012, 07:33 PM
People need to start talking to each other. And you need to stop jumping to negative conclusions
I am really trying my hardest to stop thinking negatively... I am allowing my past relationship determine my present... thanks I appreciate that