He is timid to the point of running away from people when emotionally overwhelmed. Literally! He says he feels like a little boy inside; instead of a 58 year old man. He says he is more comfortable around little girls, and plays with them like a kid. He says he is bad and needs to be spanked and cannot engage in regular sex with his wife because he fears getting her pregnant. ( her tubes are tied and she is 60 years old!) He has one son( whom he wishes had never been born)
And the kid kicks him and calls him names( since kid was ten). People at his job tease him like he was in grade school.
They call him Queer and try tricks to scare him and watch him pee on himself in fear.
I am watching as an interested observer and amateur psychologist. What IS this behavior?

This person needs professional psychiatric help and assessment, before something more serious happens, either to himself or others.

This person needs professional psychiatric help and assessment, before something more serious happens, either to himself or others.

I agree!

Obviously he needs professional help, but my question is what diagnosis best fits this behavior? Avoidant PD, pedophillia, masochist? He admitted to stalking a famous person he admires, but said he didn't mean any harm; just wanted to be his friend.
Creepy. Left a package of photos and stuff of the guys career on his doorstep.
I can just imagine the thoughts going through the poor victims head when he found a package from a stranger with NO postage or stamps on his doorstep! Yikes!
But this guy really meant no harm; just wanted to be friends with famous person. Still, I want to know, is he dangerous and what is wrong with him?

I think this is beyond the scope of our knowledge here. Only a trained professional can say.