But the mother of my son will not let me see him at all, she.has blocked my number an will not answer the.door... An she will not let me sign.the birth certificate, why because I won't give her cash for child support , I buy diaper whipes an formula every week an drop it off on her door step... I have not been.to court yet still looking for an.atterny that's fairly cheep... I have a dna test saying.he is mine but I don't know what to do because I want.to be.in.his life an be his father, court takes like aix months for it too happen, an.by not seeing my son I feel I'm waisting his life away he is only little pnce an I can't not get the days of.his life I missed back.. Idk what to do I want joint custdy of my son or something to where I can see him when I want or whitch ever daus we agree on... Wit out her there because we seem to never get along I'm willing to pay what ever it take I went an.filed custody on myself but that seemed to not work because I have not heard back from no body... Wat should I do... Im a single father with my own house an my own vehical... I have a great job bit.its hard to do this court thing when I work.everyday... the mother pf my son lives qith jer mpther her mother got her a job she has no vehical an no bills to pay because her mother pays for everything... Her mother had a bpy friend but.they split up because my babymomma is lazy an just wants to partty an.not watch my son her mother mostly has him but now her mother is getting back wit my baby's mothers real dad because she can't take care of her self let alone my son an my sons mother... Idk what to do I'm lost an I'm new at this I just need some advice I'm twenty years old an been on my own sense I was twelve I just want my son in my life an don't want to loose any rights to him what so ever!

Child support is paid by a court order, gifts are given by money or things if there is no court order.

She does not have to let you see the child at this point. You have the right to file in court and for visitation and ask for a DNA test to prove paternity. If you get a court order you can force her to allow you to visit the child

The answer is simple. File a petition in your local Family Court for custody and visitation. I don't understand why you are having a hard time figuring out that you need a court to enforce your rights.