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Winnietgepoo
Aug 22, 2012, 03:14 AM
So my boyfriend and I had got engaged and I loved him so much and I still do love him very much but sometimes he pushes me aside and makes video games more important and leaves me in the back burner and it really hurts because he plays video games alll the time I wish it was only a little because I could deal with that but its like all the time and it really hurts because its seems he doesn't xonsider my feelings because I tell him how it makes me feel and he still dose it the only thing we really do together is sleep and make love I'm so confused and hurt what should I do

smoothy
Aug 22, 2012, 04:39 AM
Break off the engagement...

If you are having these kinds of problems then you have no business being engaged.

Being engaged means you intend to marry, if you intend to marry it implies that you are good with how everything is between you.

VioletSkies
Aug 22, 2012, 01:18 PM
Personally, I think that him playing video games every now and then shouldn't be a problem. Although, if you're having problems such as this and you're already [I]engaged[I] you should look into how stable you feel your relationship is. Listen, if you're feeling left out than it's okay to talk to him about it. He will be your future husband after all, and if he truly loves you as much as it sounds than he will lay off the video games for a little while and you should be okay.

But remember, you should allow him to play video games every once in a while. If you don't, it may cause you to seem a bit too clingy. Thus, resulting in far to many problems in your relationship.