iWurlz
Aug 20, 2012, 05:21 PM
Last week my boyfriend and I broke up I only broke up with him because he suggested it. But he deleted my number, our pictures, my Facebook, etc. Last night I dropped off his stuff off and picked up mine. Then we got into talking. We texted all night trying to pick a real reason to why we broke up. I blamed him for suggesting it, and he blamed me for ending it. But, really, what can you do when someone suggests it? We both knew my birth control was an issue too, it made me really moody, and we were going to switch it. Which I just did today. But I really want to talk things out with him. Tell him I switched and such. Is it OK to text him and ask for a meeting? When we were texting last night, he stopped replying to me after I defended myself. He said that when its done, its done. So I don't know if he means that. I also saw him today at our college, he was buying textbooks. But I didn't talk to him. What should I do? Should I just ask, and if he doesn't reply, just give up? What should I say?
JudyKayTee
Aug 20, 2012, 05:32 PM
Last week my boyfriend and I broke up I only broke up with him because he suggested it. But he deleted my number, our pictures, my Facebook, and etc. Last night I dropped off his stuff off and picked up mine. Then we got into talking. We texted all night trying to pick a real reason to why we broke up. I blamed him for suggesting it, and he blamed me for ending it. But, really, what can you do when someone suggests it? We both knew my birth control was an issue too, it made me really moody, and we were going to switch it. Which I just did today. But I really wanna talk things out with him. Tell him I switched and such. Is it ok to text him and ask for a meeting? When we were texting last night, he stopped replying to me after I defended myself. He said that when its done, its done. So I don't know if he means that. I also saw him today at our college, he was buying textbooks. But I didn't talk to him. What should I do? Should I just ask, and if he doesn't reply, just give up? What should I say?
I believe what people tell me - you discussed, you defended your actions, he said "when it's done, it's done" and stopped corresponding.
I think he's done.
I'd leave him alone. He knows where to find you.