I have read a fatwa about a shaikh that oral sex is allowed in islam... but I need some reference through hadith or quran to satisfy myself... please guide me...

Hello Aasha,

Open the links below and you will know more about oral sex in iaslam, Thanks.

John


Islamic views on oral sex - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Islamic_views_on_oral_sex)

Questions On Sexuality (http://www.livingislam.org/fiqhi/fiqha_e92.html#2)

Are there some specific rituals to eat meal, or drink water, or walk, or talk. The same case is with sex. It's a normal human procedure. All it depends on your taste and culture. Eating with hands is sought as bad manners in many cultures but is traditional and liked in some. Its not religion that sets the every detail of a our daily routines. Like the foremost thing to consider in islam regarding food or meal is it should be Halal, nothing else, rest is all up to your taste and traditions. Some people like full fry and some half fry. Some people like meat and some vegetables. There´s nothing to do with islam. The same is with sex, it depends on both of you. Islam only says that it should be between legitimate partners, what they do in bed, it all depends on them. Its all depends on their taste and liking.
That's all my understandings.