I met a guy on Facebook, we got in love with each other. At this point of time I'm in a corner because his father stays in USA for the past 12 years and never cared for his son after his mother died when he was very young. The father paid a ticket for him to join him in America. He left Nigeria without telling me and now his father wants me to pay custom money and to do a traditional wedding before he can let his son come to me in my country.

Please advise please, must I just leave the whole matter, I mean forget about him, because the father needs a lot of money close to $40,000.00 from me. Then only can he let his son come to me for good. How sure can I be that this will happen? I mean that his son will come for good to me and marry me?

You are being SCAMMED!!

Yes this is a scam, there is no "custom" fee for a man to enter the country,

And you should visit and see him in person before any agreement.

This is a way to cheat you out of the money, once you pay any money, you will never hear from any of them again.