Hi, I was in relationship with a girl for about 2-3 months. Initially it started as I wanted to help her to get out of her past relationship and live her life. We used to chat a lot. Like all the time texting and chatting. I always thought in case we start I'l not fall for her but after a while I'l dump her and move on. But she started texting me I miss you and I love you all the time so I was happy least some one misses me. After merting over lunch and another meeting over drinks third day she came to my place and we kissd and she was half naked with me, I never wanted to hv sex as she was still into her ex(who happened to be mu college time junior). I was supposed to fly to see my cousin for a week and it was a last minute plan, she cried a lot said please come back soon and don't forget me and I missed the flight because I didy check the time properly. Anyway I was happy I could not leave and called her and said m coming to meet you, she said she we'l meet tomorrow but she was crying meet when I said m leaving. Anyway I went to meet her and she said I can see you only for 5 minutes as m going out with mu sister , I didn't want to meet for 5 minutes then I thought OK I'l meet her, I was angry as I missed my flight and on the top of that she wasn't ready to meet me for long time. She came I said you need to tell me if you love me or not, if yes then please show me that you love me and if no then please don't hold me and let me go. She said OK your free to go. So I left and she called in the night and said what was that? You behaving like kids, I said leave me alone I don't want to fight(I was trying to avoid arguments as she is the sweetest person) she texted me next day I didn't reply this went on for 3 days then I went to see my cousin over the weekend and she texted hi whr are you so we got started on texts, but I was angry about her not meeting me and talking to me over the phone. All we did was texted and chatting over whatsapp and Facebook. One day he said its not wrking out for us lets remain friends, I said either I want you completely in my life or I don't want a single bit of you that's how I love you. She kept accusing me of not planning my life, as I decided my travel plans mostly on last minute and I love my mom ao I listen to her a lot and she said others are leading your life you're an adult. Ao I got furious and I said OK we are done and I abused her over the chat and I texted her ex that she was seeing me and we went a little physical in bed also ( she was good friends with her ex and never wanted to lose him) I texted him so that he'l call her and say she was wrong 2nd time and all that , I just texted her ex so that she would think of me as the worst person ever and never speak to me. Her ex called her and said she was a whore and could not see good people and said he will never speak to her now. She called me and cried a lot and said you've made me lose the most important person if my life(her ex) and said make ir right, even though he treated her like she was fine with that. So I lost her and realized that I love her and want to be with her, now he don't want to be bothered and says leave her alone. I really want to get her bak in my life what do I do?