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human being
Aug 8, 2012, 05:52 PM
Hi,
I am 33 yeas old lady? I have been in a relationship from last 2and half years.My boyfriend is 7-8 years younger than me.Before starting relationship I told him everything about me.That time he said to me everything will be fins.Even I have told him within2011 December we have to come in a decision to make this relation work out I mean settle down.After that before 2011 December we had broke up.. after few days the relation again started because I wanted to keep continue.This is my first love.At first I did not fell in love.gradually I fall I love and I am living by myself.only I have got some acquaintances and him. The reason we broke up he told me he can't marry me.he's going to marry his mom's choices girl.I was pissed of.. but after I realised he can not give a name of this relation.today I have conversation with him and he said he's family reject me because of my age.I can not take care of him.I will be older before him.. and he said nothing.agree with his family.I just don't know what I will do now?Can you please help me? I am completely exhausted.I asked him about this relationship, feelings, dreams.he said to me he can't say against of his mom.he loves his mom more than me.I just don't know what am I going to do?Can you please help me?

mmresd
Aug 8, 2012, 06:04 PM
He is choosing his family before you. You completely break up with him, go no contact, and start moving on. No use sticking around for someone who doesn't want to be with you because of their family's choice.

human being
Aug 8, 2012, 06:14 PM
I don't know... in this age I have to find again some one... love some one... Will it possible for me?? I love him so much... the point is I am scared to go for any new relationship... I just want to be with him... I don't know what should be my action? I am really sorry.thank you for your advice.. u r right but I'm not in that condition take this initiative... I want options to be with him...