Shungonna
Aug 8, 2012, 09:02 AM
My girlfriend and I have been together 6 years at first it was bliss than we made plans to further the relationship more things got rough because of the distance,family,school,money,etc. So we decided to take our time an not pressure ourselves more so we just spent time just focusing on our own lives an such until she finished college. Well shortly after she had some family health problems with her dad (LVAD) so I've been more supportive trying to help her through it she says " baby im sorry i feel really bad its like finally theres nothing left to do an we can be together an stuff just keeps poping up" that was Aug 11" I've been telling her that she shouldn't feel guilty for that since then things have been kinda dull her overall mood has changed last month we were supposed to meet up like June but she quickly canceled an said its not a good time because of church,family activities,work so i said it was ok i used to do (2 week visits every month,FLA>TENN) so 2 weeks ago she stopped taking my calls but yet she will call an text me randomly 3 days ago she texted "I'm completely lost. I've been wanting to be alone for quite awhile. From everyone. I still don't know why. And here recently I have found I'm just annoyed with people. I have shut down. Not in a depressed way that may look harsh but in reality I just want to start life after 2007 all over again." I'm just all over the place at the moment I guess afraid of what I may expect.
I need to know what I can do to help in this situation I love her very much an I'm sure she feels the same she just will not let me talk to her I've tried flowers last Friday she loved them but later that night refused to talk again so since then I've left her alone but omg she still hasn't called it's been 4 days!!
I need to know what I can do to help in this situation I love her very much an I'm sure she feels the same she just will not let me talk to her I've tried flowers last Friday she loved them but later that night refused to talk again so since then I've left her alone but omg she still hasn't called it's been 4 days!!