How do I get over my sons father I been knowing him my whole life we been together off and on for four years he was my first everything I still love him and he still loves me but it just seem that we are not made for each other any more and we view things different now... I still yarn to be with him but we tried so many times and it always a dead end so we both decided to stop trying... but I really in my heart want to keep trying but he said he preyed on it and he said that we just will not work

Have you tried marriage counseling andtried to see what the problem is maybe u can get into deeper with the counseling?

Have you tried marriage counseling andtried to see what the problem is maybe u can get into deeper with the counseling?
I thought about but never said anything to him about it