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Merkiedoll
Aug 4, 2012, 07:39 AM
Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 6 months. A lot has happened during this relationship and there are things he doesn't believe me about because of my mom.

I've done my best to keep him happy but I'm noticing more and more that we fight more than we used too, but now even when we are getting along and having fun he always says "I'm going to my moms.". Him and his mom didn't used to get along that much and he used to invite me everywhere, now there are times when he says "You wanna go to my moms with me to get something?" and when I say yes he comes into the room I'm in before we leave and says "I'm just gonna go by myself."

It hurts my feelings and then when I ask how long he's going to be gone he gets mad. It wouldn't be so bad if I had someone to talk to and hang out with that was close to me, but he leaves me at his house by myself and I just feel so alone.

Most of my friends are usually busy and we don't have cellphones so I just sit here, and wait. I don't know what to do.

Homegirl 50
Aug 4, 2012, 07:55 AM
You live with him after only being with him 6 months?
How old are you?
How long have you known him?
Do you have a job, friends ?
Get a life of your own. Better yet, move out and get a life of your own. Sounds like the honeymoon is over.

C0bra_M3nace
Aug 4, 2012, 07:57 AM
Have you tried telling him how you feel? If he gets mad about it then dump his sorry butt. When are you going to stand up for yourself and stop being left alone?

talaniman
Aug 4, 2012, 09:30 AM
You need something better to do, places to go, people to see, rather than sit and wait on him.

here2assist
Aug 8, 2012, 09:42 AM
You need to get a life of your own. It's not fair to expect him to be your only source of entertainment. Read a book, take a walk or watch a good movie if no one is avail at the time. There's so many opportunities out there to meet new people. Have you tried joining any meetup groups? Can you take a class of some sort? I've made new friends through dance classes and meetup groups. Right now your life is completely unbalanced. I hope you try and make an effort to expand your social circle. No one person can ever fulfill all your wants and desires.