My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year nowa.I was open wit him at thld hiat the start of the relationship and even told him about an ongoin relationship of mine at that moment but I told him it wasn't serious so he said nothing.after things got really serious,another guy that had once proposed to me began to be want intimacy bt he was my friend so I was trying to be careful not to hurt him.when I told my boyfriend about him,he ddnt seem worried at first,then he later began various accusations on me saying I was unfaithful and ol stuffs.quit opposite to him,I was just confused and needed his advice bt he wldnt understand And he asked me to break oFf my friendship wit them all.being inluv with hi,I did so even though it wasn't easy.the worse hapnd when he checked my inbox and saw messages from guys declaring their love for me.my replies ddnt convey me loving them too but just showed affection but he also took it as betrayal I promise I love only him and I only used friendly words.now a twist comes to d story:I find out thers a girl dt likes him and he's been really friendly with her and dey even communicate on phone and Facebook.I confronted him and askd him to stop dt.he promised me he had but I later found out he didn't den he promised me he had stopped.a shockin fact is that he cares a lot about her feelings and dt confuses meamnow we are on holiday and we stay in different towns so he came to visit the town I stay inamcan you imagine he spent a week without asking to see me until I confronted him.he came and saw me for lyk ten minutes and left den neva mentioned coming back.he said he was going back home hence I askd him when he was planing on saying bye and he said he hadn't even thought of that.note that he is still calin bt he dsnt text anymore.note olso he was asking for permisiion to visit another girl whom he knew clearly had feelings for him but claims not to have time to see me.should I be worried?

My boyfriend and I hav been together for over a year nowa.I was open wit him at thld hiat the start of the relationship and even told him about an ongoin relationship of mine at that moment but I told him it wasn't serious so he said nothing.after things got really serious,another guy that had once proposed to me began to be want intimacy bt he was my friend so I was trying to be careful not to hurt him.when I told my boyfriend abt him,he ddnt seem worried at first,then he later began various accusations on me sayin I was unfaithful and ol stuffs.quit opposite to him,I was just confused and needed his advice bt he wldnt understand And he asked me to break oFf my friendship wit them all.being inluv with hi,I did so eventhough it wasn't easy.the worse hapnd when he checked my inbox and saw messages from guys declaring their love for me.my replies ddnt convey me loving them too but just showed affection but he also took it as betrayal I promise I love only him and I only used friendly words.now a twist comes to d story:I find out thers a girl dt likes him and he's been really friendly with her and dey even communicate on phone and facebook.I confronted him and askd him to stop dt.he promised me he had but I later found out he didn't den he promised me he had stopped.a shockin fact is that he cares a lot about her feelings and dt confuses meamnow we are on holiday and we stay in different towns so he came to visit the town I stay inamcan u imagine he spent a week without asking to see me until I confronted him.he came and saw me for lyk ten minutes and left den neva mentioned comin back.he said he was goin back home hence I askd him wen he was planing on sayin bye and he said he hadn't even thought of that.note that he is still calin bt he dsnt txt anymore.note olso he was asking for permisiion to visit another girl whom he knew clearly had feelings for him but claims not to hav time to see me.should I be worried?


So you were sneaking around and getting declarations of love from other men.

Now your boyfriend is sneaking around and contacting other women.

It's called what goes around comes around.