I am Trying to conceive. My periods are irregular but I usually get them at the end of the month sometimes ever so often I won't start until the beginning of the month.. I have been having mild cramps for about 5 or 6 days in my lower abdominal region I usually just cramp the day before my period and then I start. I have also been having lower back pain and headaches.. Every now and then I will feel queezy and I've noticed a small amount of clear stretchy discharge. Ive been having dreams of being a mommy. In my dreams I see my little boy that my fiancé wants so badly but I don't know if that's just me thinking about it so much that I dream about it. I have this feeling that I'm prenant but I don't know if its just me getting my hopes up. I did the deed 11 days ago and still no period also took 4 tests yesterday and the day before in all and they were all bfN ;( was it too early to test? Am I getting false negatives? Or am I just fixing to get my period? Need to know the truth.