I have recently upset and disappointed my mam and I don't know how to make her look at me like I'm her daughter again because ill I want is for her to be proud of me

What did you do to make her no longer proud of you?

What did you do to make her no longer proud of you?

Something bad that I wish not to sat

What did you do to make her no longer proud of you?

Something bad that I wish not to say

That's your prerogative. Sadly, without knowing why she's mad, I really don't know how to fix it.

Good luck.

That's your prerogative. Sadly, without knowing why she's mad, I really don't know how to fix it.

Good luck.
Thanks anyway

Something bad that I wish not to sat


How would we possibly have an answer for you if we don't know why she's disappointed in you?

EDIT: Is it because of your cutting? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental-emotional-health/friend-cuts-herself-what-do-do-help-her-689050.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental-emotional-health/why-do-people-cut-themselves-689162.html

Reading through your posts I see a very bad attitude and very conflicting stories from you - it's hard to tell what the truth is and isn't. I can only imagine living with both your attitude and your "stories."

How would we possibly have an answer for you if we don't know why she's disappointed in you?

EDIT: Is it because of your cutting? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental-emotional-health/friend-cuts-herself-what-do-do-help-her-689050.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental-emotional-health/why-do-people-cut-themselves-689162.html

Reading through your posts I see a very bad attitude and very conflicting stories from you - it's hard to tell what the truth is and isn't. I can only imagine living with both your attitude and your "stories."
What?
Well I keep my family life out and away of my personal life.
And its all true why would I lie... I have nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of

What?
Well I keep my family life out and away of my personal life.
And its all true why would I lie ... I have nothin to be embarrassed or ashamed of


Then why would you post a question here and refuse to post the personal information which is necessary to answer it?

Then why would you post a question here and refuse to post the personal information which is necessary to answer it?
Well if you disappointed your mother how would you make it up to her... That's all I'm asking

Well if u disappointed your mother how wud u make it up to her ... That's all I'm asking

By stopping the behavior that disappointed her.

You have a lot of issues. You need to deal with them.

By stopping the behavior that disappointed her.

You have a lot of issues. You need to deal with them.
I don't have a lot ill admit I have a few and I am dealing with them
But its not easy to drop something when there's nothing to drop
All I did was tell her my problems and she flipped

I don't have a lot ill admit I have a few and I am dealing with them
But its not easy to jus drop somethin when there's nothin to drop
All I did was tell her my problems and she flipped


Again, maybe you jaywalked. Maybe you killed someone. Maybe you said you'd stop cutting and you didn't stop.

You make people proud of you by acting in a responsible manner.

I'm sure I disappointed my mother. Everyone does. Without knowing how deeply you disappointed her there's absolutely no way to know how you go forward and "make up" for whatever happened.

You cut yourself and you're proud of the scars - I'm sure that doesn't make her proud of you. https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental-emotional-health/why-do-people-cut-themselves-689162.html

Again, maybe you jaywalked. Maybe you killed someone. Maybe you said you'd stop cutting and you didn't stop.

You make people proud of you by acting in a responsible manner.

I'm sure I disappointed my mother. Everyone does. Without knowing how deeply you disappointed her there's absolutely no way to kwnow how you go forward and "make up" for whatever happened.

You cut yourself and you're proud of the scars - I'm sure that doesn't make her proud of you. https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental-emotional-health/why-do-people-cut-themselves-689162.html

Yeah I'm PROUD of my scars... it shows people how stupid and confused and alone I felt and there's nothing wrong with being proud of them... its a memory from the past I carry around with myself so judge me if you want but you don't know the full story of why I'm PROUD OF MY SCARS

Yeah I'm PROUD of my scars ...it shows ppl how stupid and confused and alone I felt and there's nothin wrong with being proud of them ...its a memory from the past I carry around with myself so judge me if you want bu you dnt know d full story of why I'm PROUD OF MY SCARS


You have issues -

You have issues -

No,no I don't :)

Yeah I'm PROUD of my scars ...it shows people how stupid and confused and alone I felt and there's nothing wrong with being proud of them ...its a memory from the past I carry around with myself so judge me if you want but you don't know the full story of why I'm PROUD OF MY SCARS

I'm shocked by this. You're proud of your scars? Proud because you inflicted pain on yourself? Do you realize how sick that is?

It would be like cutting off your arm because you're upset, and then telling people "Look at me, I cut off my arm because I was upset. I'm so proud of that. Don't ou think that's great"?

You keep saying you're getting help for your issues. What sort of help are you getting? You're 13. You need mom to get the help for you, and apparently she's upset with you because you told her what's going on in your life. That leads me to believe that you've hidden your issues from her. So why would she get you the help you need, that you claim you're getting, if she didn't know that you have issues?

You're proud of the scars, but you won't accept that you need help. I'd be much prouder of you if you actually accepted that you need help. That is if you're even telling the truth.

I'm shocked by this. You're proud of your scars? Proud because you inflicted pain on yourself? Do you realize how sick that is?

It would be like cutting off your arm because you're upset, and then telling people "Look at me, I cut off my arm because I was upset. I'm so proud of that. Don't ou think that's great"?

You keep saying you're getting help for your issues. What sort of help are you getting? You're 13. You need mom to get the help for you, and apparently she's upset with you because you told her what's going on in your life. That leads me to believe that you've hidden your issues from her. So why would she get you the help you need, that you claim you're getting, if she didn't know that you have issues?

You're proud of the scars, but you won't accept that you need help. I'd be much prouder of you if you actually accepted that you need help. That is if you're even telling the truth.

I don't care if your proud or not of me. I don't wake up,every morning hoping that your proud of me. I go to private counseling. Why would I lie about cutting myself.

I don't care if your proud or not of me. I don't wake up,every morning hoping that your proud of me. I go to private counseling. Why would I lie about cutting myself.


I thought I covered this - for the attention. Next you'll set your hair on fire.

I don't care if your proud or not of me. I don't wake up,every morning hoping that your proud of me. I go to private counseling. Why would I lie about cutting myself.

So your mom knows about the cutting, the molestation, and all your other issues, and sent you to counseling?

But you said she's mad because of something you told her about your life. What other secret could you possibly have that's worse than what you've told us?

As for me being proud of you. Kid, you're not mine, and no I'm not proud of you. I'm not going to lose sleep over anything you've posted here because I've seen it all before, not only in my life, but on this site. If you don't think you have a problem, then why are you posting about all the problems you have? But, bottom line, you're just another poster. You may think your issues and your posts are original. They're not. You're the same as every other teen posting here looking for attention. So don't worry, I'll forget all about you in minutes. You're one in a million, just on this site alone.

You came here for help. Do you actually want help, or are you just looking for more attention? Your posts speak for themselves. I agree with Judy. You just want attention.

I thought I covered this - for the attention. Next you'll set your hair on fire.
Haha, that happened to me when I was younger. Ha, it wasn't funny at the time,but when I look back at it, it is because I don't know how I got my hair near the candle. And I don't do anything for attention.

So your mom knows about the cutting, the molestation, and all your other issues, and sent you to counseling?

But you said she's mad because of something you told her about your life. What other secret could you possibly have that's worse than what you've told us?

As for me being proud of you. Kid, you're not mine, and no I'm not proud of you. I'm not going to lose sleep over anything you've posted here because I've seen it all before, not only in my life, but on this site. If you don't think you have a problem, then why are you posting about all the problems you have? But, bottom line, you're just another poster. You may think your issues and your posts are original. They're not. You're the same as every other teen posting here looking for attention. So don't worry, I'll forget all about you in minutes. You're one in a million, just on this site alone.

You came here for help. Do you actually want help, or are you just looking for more attention? Your posts speak for themselves. I agree with Judy. You just want attention.
But I don't want attention. All I wanted was answers or help to my questions. I know you've seen it all before,but I don't care because all I wanted to know was how to make my mam proud of me,but I've done it now so,thanks for all your help. Wish you the best in life

Thanks to everyone for your answers and judgements xxx

But I don't want attention. All I wanted was answers or help to my questions. I know you've seen it all before,but I don't care because all I wanted to know was how to make my mam proud of me,but I've done it now so,thanks for all your help. Wish you the best in life

Thanks to everyone for your answers and judgements xxx
And I LOVE your good spelling and commas! Your teacher would be proud of you! I certainly am!

And I LOVE your good spelling and commas! Your teacher would be proud of you! I certainly am!

Thanks.

But I don't want attention. All I wanted was answers or help to my questions. I know you've seen it all before,but I don't care because all I wanted to know was how to make my mam proud of me,but I've done it now so,thanks for all your help. Wish you the best in life

Thanks to everyone for your answers and judgements xxx

Sorry, but I don't believe you. All your questions are screaming for attention. It's also very amusing that as soon as we ask questions, or start to tell you that you need help, suddenly the "problem" is solved and you no longer need advice.

Typical behavior for someone that wants attention. When we first started answering, with concern, and attention, you lapped it up. Then, when we turned the tables and told you that you need help, suddenly you no longer needed the help, because the attention wasn't the kind you wanted.

You want sympathy, you want love, you want to be "kissed in the rain".

No matter what you say I'm sticking to what I believe. You're doing all this for attention. I hope you figure it out soon so you can get the help you really need.

Good luck.

Sorry, but I don't believe you. All your questions are screaming for attention. It's also very amusing that as soon as we ask questions, or start to tell you that you need help, suddenly the "problem" is solved and you no longer need advice.

Typical behavior for someone that wants attention. When we first started answering, with concern, and attention, you lapped it up. Then, when we turned the tables and told you that you need help, suddenly you no longer needed the help, because the attention wasn't the kind you wanted.

You want sympathy, you want love, you want to be "kissed in the rain".

No matter what you say I'm sticking to what I believe. You're doing all this for attention. I hope you figure it out soon so you can get the help you really need.

Good luck.


I love the passive/aggressive "thank you"... "Thanks for your answers and judgements xxx"

For a person who doesn't care it does appear to be all about the judgments. How sad for someone to cut, leave permanent scars which someday a boyfriend, husband, CHILD will see and question - all to prove she's her own person (or something along those lines).

The other side of this is I can't imagine the pain of this person's mother - a 13-year old daughter with big attitude, apparently unsupervised with loads of time for the Internet, a cutter who brags about it and is proud of her scars, a child posting about needing a boyfriend at 13, a child who can't tell the same story in two places. I would bet the OP's life isn't easy. I would bet the mother's life is worse, much worse.

Sad all the way around.

I love the passive/aggressive "thank you" ... "Thanks for your answers and judgements xxx"

For a person who doesn't care it does appar to be all about the judgments.

The other side of this is I can't imagine the pain of this person's mother - a 13-year old daughter with big attitude, apparently unsupervised with loads of time for the Internet, a cutter who brags about it and is proud of her scars, a child posting about needing a boyfriend at 13, a child who can't tell the same story in two places. I would bet the OP's life isn't easy. I would bet the mother's life is worse, much worse.

Sad all the way around.

Okay.

Sorry, but I don't believe you. All your questions are screaming for attention. It's also very amusing that as soon as we ask questions, or start to tell you that you need help, suddenly the "problem" is solved and you no longer need advice.

Typical behavior for someone that wants attention. When we first started answering, with concern, and attention, you lapped it up. Then, when we turned the tables and told you that you need help, suddenly you no longer needed the help, because the attention wasn't the kind you wanted.

You want sympathy, you want love, you want to be "kissed in the rain".

No matter what you say I'm sticking to what I believe. You're doing all this for attention. I hope you figure it out soon so you can get the help you really need.

Good luck.

Okay.