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80Rhodes
Jul 30, 2012, 07:49 PM
A couple years ago I dated an ex co-worker, "Nick" about 6 months after his divorce but it didn't last cause it was too soon. I Am still friends with other co-workers though and have have seen Nick a couple times. Last time didn't go so well since I had a little too much to drink. Then I was a little y when he tried asked me out for a drink a couple months after that. It was a Bad year. Recently A mutual friend, Tim, has said Nick "thinks the world" of me. And I just saw Nick at a happy hour and he gave me the biggest hug but had to leave right after I got there. But 10 minutes later he sent Tim a text saying to give me a hug because I am "too awesome" I have always liked him and thought maybe our timing is right. But when I have texted him he barely responds and he has not initiated either. Did I read too much into our last meeting? I want to tell him I still care about him and I am sorry for being childish and mean last year. Please help :(

Homegirl 50
Jul 30, 2012, 07:58 PM
Leave him alone. He is obviously no longer interested. If by chance he is let him contact you.

here2assist
Jul 31, 2012, 02:11 PM
It's not in their words or their friend's words. It's in their actions. If he wanted to be with you he would try.

WisperWill70
Jul 31, 2012, 03:04 PM
If he thinks the world of you and thinks you're awesome AND is interested -- you'll know.
It's as simple as that.

So learn those lessons about childish/mean/drinking and apply them to someone who is open to you in the present.