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anim31401
Jul 30, 2012, 05:18 PM
I've been going to out my boyfriend for almost 2 months now. Hes completely different from what I would consider my type in every shape or form. We've known each other for more than 3 years and that's basically how long he's been trying to get together with me for. He's told me he loved me and that he wanted me to have his kids and such but He's really sarcastic at times and since I'm completely gullible I don't know when he's telling the truth or lying to me. At the beginning of the relationship he told me all these things like how he was a virgin and stuff and later on I ask him questions about it and he tells the truth. I don't know why he feels like he needs to lie to me to keep me. It also doesn't help that my pet peeve is genarated towards liars. It annoys me when he lies to me and he acts like its nothing. He also shows too much affection in public when its meant for the bedroom. I believe that some things belong behind closed doors and when he gets too physical or verbal it completely turns me off. He's unnecessarily rough in bed and I'm really sore after. He doesn't tell me things when I ask but he expects me to tell him everything. He keeps claiming I have another guy on the side or that I'm texting guys when we are together. We barely see each other and he calls me like once or twice a week claiming he's too busy. I want to give him my all but I can't when he's doing so many things I dislike. What should I do??

stephanie_ramey
Jul 30, 2012, 07:30 PM
Well he's ovy a jerk you don't need someone in your life like that he's trying to take control of you and you should not allow that I was in a realationship like that for to yrs and it lead to him beating everyday hun a) talk to him or b) leave him