Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years now and got children together for the last year or so now since our youngest child arrived we have been fading away in a sense not as much time for each other now things are a lot better for time but ever since I've started my new job she has progressively been pushing me away completely unessecary arguments etc.. I'm not the type to invade privacy but I saw a message on her phone to find out she had been texting someone she had slept with in the past and said to him she doesn't want any sexual contact but at the same time inviting him round while I'm out for work I don't believe he has met up with her but I wouldn't know if she did anyway I confronted her about this and she said I was only having a laugh I couldn't believe how strange her reaction was she then text me at work saying she had to told him that she doesn't want him to talk to her anymore OK fair enough left that in the past then she keeps saying to me now that she doesn't feel like she has anything to give anymore but she says she wants to be with me and she loves me but the only weird part is we haven't had any thing going in the bedroom for months now and she says she doesn't feel like having sex when there definently nothing wrong when we have sex that's for sure she just gets really funny with that topic I'm so confused someone help