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joe 408
Jul 29, 2012, 09:00 PM
Hi Everyone I’m Joe and I got some stuff to say and my point of what I’m about to tell you is will she ever come back and want me? Ok?

Well months ago I had a crush on my best friend and like November 2011 she became my best friend. I saw her have other boyfriends and when they would hurt her I would always be there for her no matter what. I always was there for her no matter what in any situation and she was always there for me.

Then one day around February 2012 I told her how I felt about her and I also told her about a dream that I had of her and I told her she is the girl of my dreams and yeah she is to me and the coolest girl ever.

So we will talk everyday as my best friend. Then on March 21, 2012 we were talking one day on the phone. Then I told her how I felt again. Then when we hung up 5 minutes later she texted me saying that she wants to be mine but I didn’t see the message until March 22, 2012. So later that night I asked her if she would like to be my girlfriend. Then she said yes then everything was going great and she was my entire world to me then.

Someday in June she started telling me I don’t give her space. Then she said she isn’t used to a guy treating her as well as I did then. She gave me two chances. Then on July 23 she broke up with me and said she was just going to ignore me and leave me because she doesn’t have the guts to tell me. So she broke up with me.

Then later that night we called and talked as friends, and then we talked about the breakup. She told me she loves me so much but she can’t be with me and then she asked me for one last kiss over the phone so I gave it to her, then I told her I love you. Then she said I love you to then I gave her another kiss then she gave me another one.

Now it’s been six days since I haven’t talked to her. So do you think she will ever come back? Because she used to tell me when we were together that she loves me more and that I make her so happy. She isn’t used to a guy treating her so well and she asked for one last kiss during the phone and I asked her if she still loves me she said yes.

We lasted 4 months together and I still have feelings for her should I just let her go? What should I do? Will she ever come back? I treated her like a princess so once again, do you think she will come back to me one day?

Alty
Jul 30, 2012, 12:31 PM
There's no way to know what she'll do. It's possible that she may come back, but it doesn't sound like it. It sounds like she wants to end things but doesn't want to hurt you, so instead of telling you the truth, she's telling you that she still cares about you, just so she can soften the blow and keep you as a friend, or a backup plan.

Fact is, she's stated that she doesn't want a relationship with you. That says it all.

Get on with your life, meet other people, date other people, and if she comes back you can decide then what you want to do. But don't spend your life waiting for her to come back when she may never do so.

talaniman
Jul 30, 2012, 12:58 PM
I think she liked it better just being best friends so she could date others, and have her fun.

Just curious Joe, did you two ever go out in person or was this whole thing over the phone?

Sorry guy, people can be in love in many ways with a person and not want a romantic relationship with them. Hey it was fun for a few months, be grateful for the time you spent with her, but now you move on.

acension1
Jul 30, 2012, 01:26 PM
You guys weren't together too long and nothing significant took place from what I read... so I would say move on, same thing happened to me when I was younger I just moved until I found my sweet heart