Trying to find name of movie I have only seen on TV,don't know title or who is in it can only remember one sceen near the end ,Lady living in house is in kitchen when a dark cloudy shape that she has seen before appears near her, it passes her and goes through the wall into the flat next door where her mother is sat in a wheel chair lady leaves house and rushes round to flat and asks mother if she saw it , mother teriffied confirms she did and I think leaves next day,prior to this every thought lady was having break down

This one gets asked about a lot, so I'll offer it as a possibility:

The Haunted (1991 TV movie)
starring Sally Kirkland, Jeffrey DeMunn, Diane Baker, Cassie Yates, Joyce Van Patten
IMDb synopsis:
Supposedly based on a true story, this is the story of the Smurl family, who move into their new home on Chase Street only to find that it is plagued with three spirits and a demon. The demon wants to destroy their family, and they are constantly desperate until they find the Warren family to get rid of them.
MSN synopsis:
"The Haunted" is a Fox Network TV movie purportedly based on eyewitness testimony. The story goes that, in the mid-1980s, the Smurl family of Pittston, Pennsylvania, began noticing something askew in their four-bedroom Victorian home. Apparently there are agents of Satan at work, bedeviling the family and smashing the crockery. None of the Smurls believes in ghosts~until they have no choice.

The Haunted (TV Movie 1991) - IMDb (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0102007/)
The Haunted (1991) - Synopsis - MSN Movies (http://movies.msn.com/movies/movie-synopsis/the-haunted.2/)

Here's Part 1 on YouTube:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcLZleMNRZ8

This one gets asked about a lot, so I'll offer it as a possibility:

The Haunted (1991 TV movie)
starring Sally Kirkland, Jeffrey DeMunn, Diane Baker, Cassie Yates, Joyce Van Patten
IMDb synopsis:
Supposedly based on a true story, this is the story of the Smurl family, who move into their new home on Chase Street only to find that it is plagued with three spirits and a demon. The demon wants to destroy their family, and they are constantly desperate until they find the Warren family to get rid of them.
MSN synopsis:
"The Haunted" is a Fox Network TV movie purportedly based on eyewitness testimony. The story goes that, in the mid-1980s, the Smurl family of Pittston, Pennsylvania, began noticing something askew in their four-bedroom Victorian home. Apparently there are agents of Satan at work, bedeviling the family and smashing the crockery. None of the Smurls believes in ghosts~until they have no choice.

The Haunted (TV Movie 1991) - IMDb (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0102007/)
The Haunted (1991) - Synopsis - MSN Movies (http://movies.msn.com/movies/movie-synopsis/the-haunted.2/)

Here's Part 1 on YouTube:
The Haunted 1991 TV movie (1/10) - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcLZleMNRZ8)

Thanks moonstruck but it is not that it is quite a long title and you would not think it a horror by the title.