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summer851
Jul 24, 2012, 10:42 PM
Dear All,

My boyfriend and me are together since 6 months. Out of these 6 months, 2 months he stayed at my apartment and we enjoyed the time like anything. Then due to some reasons other then our relationship he moved to his place.

We are from same professional backgrounds and both working good. He is a nice guy and I love him a lot.

The problem is when he is not around he doesn't texts and doesn't seem to call me and I feel like every time I am going around to call and text him. Even when he talk he never says he loves me and stuff.

I feel confused that whether he is even in love or its me only.

Zoeynoey
Jul 24, 2012, 11:54 PM
He just probably isn't much of a cellular communication type of guy if he responds to you when you text him but he doesn't start text conversations it's not a big deal and don't stress about it however if he barely ever responds to your texts I'd ask him about it and ask him to try to respond more but don't make it a big deal where you get in a big fight then if he still doesn't respond I'd ask him why he isn't responding.

BethVader
Jul 24, 2012, 11:59 PM
It sounds like he has already moved on and just doesn't have the balls to break it
Off with you. End it now and move on. You deserve a equal partner.
Good luck to you.

tsila1777
Aug 6, 2013, 12:31 PM
I don't know what 'reason' it was that he got his own place, but honestly, I think he has moved on and like Beth said he just doesn't know how to break it off with you. It seems he is trying to get you to break it off, at least he is giving some mighty powerful hints that he doesn't want you anymore. His loss. Get on with your life. Be good to yourself.

I just saw that this was first posted July 12. I guess you have solved the problem by now. I hope it went well and you are OK.