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Winnebago1025
Jul 24, 2012, 06:21 PM
I met the love of my life and we've been together now for 7 months and he's leaving next month for grad school in a different country. I've had the best time of my life and he treats me like a princess. I knew he wasn't completely over his ex when we started; she was his first love of 4 years and she broke his heart. He says he wants to keep things going when he moves but he just doesn't see it happening and doesn't believe in it like I do. Then I found today looking through his history he looks at her Facebook everyday, which is far from getting over her. He says he doesn't still love het, but a girl knows better. He loves me, he does but is all this worth it? I think it is but I don't want to be the stupid girl that makes the mistake of staying with the wrong one, or am I giving up too early?

Zoeynoey
Jul 25, 2012, 12:10 AM
1. He is in denial about being over with his ex
2. It sounds like he doesn't want to go long distance with you because he can't make up his mind on who to choose
3. What I would do is break up with him saying that you don't think it's going to work with the long distance and just get over him