I am in a relationship been in it 4 like 7 years but that don't mean I was happy threw it all. But I met this other guy at work he's funny an real to me I like him he likes me a lot he knows I have a boyfriend and he got to girl he respects that but I don't know if its okk to date him I am in love with my boyfriend.. but I also like him what should I do?.

If you want to date him, you need to break it off with your boyfriend first and make sure he breaks up with his girlfriend. Yes it is complicated. Do yourself a favour, and be single because it is obvious you don't know what you want.

I had a relationship for 4 years and the first year of the relationship she met an old school friend down town she got his number and they were texting all the time I thought nothing of it cause I trusted her till I saw the messages on her phone I confronted her and we went on a break she didn't know if she wanted a single life or a relationship so I said I can't be selfish and we broke up and I got a message 3 months down the line saying she wanted to meet up with me and we got back together for a further 3 years... now where no more again... just be careful what you do with this one 7 years is a long time and you might regret it