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michelle6565
Jul 23, 2012, 09:37 PM
My 26 years old daughter back using meth she has lost 1 child to the fahter and last week she lost her 15 month old baby to the dad for meth uses for the last 6 years I have put up with her ups and downs and relapse and then she puts all the blame on me I did go to court for my grandson and let me tell you it was very hard she hates me I don't know what way to go or how to feel the more I call her or try to help she calls the cops and states am bugging her then I get a ticket for harssment wow for lioving her too much am up all night waiting for the phone to ring that she dead or in jail I feel I did the right thingin court I said she was a good mom but not when she is using that crap michelle form Kansas

BethVader
Jul 25, 2012, 12:57 AM
People on meth are not thinking with their right minds. Do not take personally the things she says or does, it is not about you, but about her addiction. She could not stop using meth by herself even if she really wanted to.
Gather her friends and family for an intervention, offer her the best possible rehab situation and let her know that if she chooses not to go that you will remove yourself from her life.
If she chooses not to attend rehab, let her go. There is nothing more you can do.
Let her know that when she is ready to go to rehab that you will be there to take her, but you will not stand by and watch her kill herself.
Good luck to you, I hope you get your daughter back. Having a child on drugs is a painful
Thing and you will be in my prayers.