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CassNip22
Jul 22, 2012, 07:31 PM
Ive been dating my boyfriend for four months now but we've known each other for four yrs and even had a fling back in the day. I love him very much and he says the same. He was super sweet for the first couple weeks then it started going downhill with the not trusting me and the assuming and we started fighting a lot. Came to the conclusion my drinking and his anger issues did not colide so just a week ago I gave up drinking for him yet he's still a snap case. We have had some pretty bad fights and hears the twist, don't want it round my two yr old babygirl. He was my best friend before my boyfriend and DOES admit he has a problem with his anger and says sorry every time. But doesn't change all the name calling, me slapping him etc. I need some answers on what to do cause we still madly in love </3

anonymous1975
Jul 22, 2012, 07:45 PM
If you are still madly in love then why are you hitting him or why is he calling you names that what you should ask yourself. And to answer your question if your daughter was where you are would you want this her probably not then why do you want for yourself remember she is learning from you on how to be a woman

kawaisoni
Jul 22, 2012, 09:06 PM
I think you have two dilemmas that being your baby and your boyfriend. His anger issues are never going to go away, and I think you are doing wrong by drinking and setting a bad example for your daughter yourself. If anything, you should do your best to have a tranquil environment for your child, that should be your number one priority. You should put your feelings aside and look for your child and find a partner that really brings a homely mood to your life. I know nothing is perfect, but you can always look for something better. If you still madly love him, then that's a tough one. Decisions of this kind are difficult to make. You can stay with him, but you already know his anger and his personality are always going to be the same.