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teenagelove13
Jul 17, 2012, 03:53 PM
Okay , I had my period June 18th and I got off it June 23rd . June the 24th I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and he came in me. June the 25th I had sex with my ex boyfriend ( which I know was super wrong ) and he didn't inside me but I'm pretty sure there was precum. Then the next couple of days after that I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend. July the 13th I found out I was 3 weeks and four days pregnant counting from my last cycle.. which one is my baby father. I really really really hope its my boyfriend!

Alty
Jul 17, 2012, 04:06 PM
No way to know. The dates are way too close.

You'll have to wait for the baby to be born and get a DNA test done. That's the only option. No one will be able to even give an accurate guess.

Good luck.

teenagelove13
Jul 18, 2012, 02:44 PM
If a boy precum in you then stop and precum in you again is it likely to get you pregnant? Or maybe he didn't even precum the first time.

teenagelove13
Jul 18, 2012, 02:47 PM
If a boy precum in you and stop and precum in you again is it likely to get you pregnant. Even 2 days after your cycle ? Or I don't even think he did the first time. I'm not sure.

smoothy
Jul 18, 2012, 02:51 PM
If a boy precum in you and stop and precum in you again is it likely to get you pregnant. Even 2 days after your cycle ? Or I dnt even think he did the first time. I'm not sure.

You don't KNOW what he did... and yes its very possible it was enough. You have to wait now and see.

teenagelove13
Jul 18, 2012, 02:58 PM
You don't KNOW what he did...and yes its very possible it was enough. You have to wait now and see.

I thought you could only get pregnant from precum is if he came earlier that day and didn't urinate ?

smoothy
Jul 18, 2012, 03:00 PM
I thought you could only get pregnant from precum is if he came earlier that day and didn't urinate ?

You seriously need to find a source of accurate information and that's NOT wherever you got that from.

ScottGem
Jul 18, 2012, 03:03 PM
ANY time you have penile insertion there is the risk of pregnancy! How old are you that you don't know this. Where are you getting this info from?

teenagelove13
Jul 27, 2012, 02:54 PM
Can I ask this question one more time . I really need help I'm stressing . My last cycle was June 18 , its lasted until the 23 . I had unprotected sex June 24 unprotected and he ejaculated in me . I had sex June 25th but he didn't come in me . But I know about pre-ejaculation. Then June 26th and 27th and 30th and July 1st 3rd and 4th ihad unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I am 5 weeks and 4 days today. And I have talk to both dudes and told them the situation now. And they both agreeed to a dna test . I just want like a guess who it could be. And my boyfriend has always came in me . For going on 3 years now. And the other dude never came in me but once a few months back . I just need a guess. So I can ease on the stressing.

ScottGem
Jul 27, 2012, 03:10 PM
Any guess would be as good as flipping a coin. Even the fact that you are 5 weeks and 4 days is a guess. Given the timing it could be either. You will just have to wait.

teenagelove13
Jul 27, 2012, 03:17 PM
Well its not a guess. They told me eht the clinc yesterday that's how far along I am !

ScottGem
Jul 27, 2012, 03:19 PM
Well its not a guess. They told me eht the clinc yesterday that's how far along I am !

Umm yeah it's a guess. An educated guess but still a guess. Predicting conception dates is an inexact science. They could be off by days, even weeks.

teenagelove13
Jul 27, 2012, 03:22 PM
Umm yeah its a guess. An educated guess but still a guess. Predicting conception dates is an inexact science. They could be off by days, even weeks.
So ultrasounda aren't reliable?

ScottGem
Jul 27, 2012, 03:26 PM
An ultrasound shows a picture of the fetus. A grainy inexact picture. Interpretation of that picture is a guess, though an educated one. In that way an ultrasound is not a 100% reliable indicator of conception date.

Alty
Jul 27, 2012, 07:25 PM
You had sex with these two guys one day apart. There's no way to guess who the father is.

You want a guess? Okay. There's a 50% chance that the baby is your boyfriends, and a 50% chance that it's the other guys. That's the only guess anyone can give. You could do eenie meenie miny mo and come up with about as accurate a guess.

Sorry, but you'll have to wait until the baby is born.

Fr_Chuck
Jul 27, 2012, 07:30 PM
When they look at the ultrasou, and, they see the size of the baby and compare it to average size.

Any and we do many any estimate of conception dates is a educated guess, it is good give or take a week, sometimes two weeks. So give or take one week, is plus or minus one week (or a two week period) There is no way to tell which man it is, if sex was within one or two weeks of each other.

You will have to wait till child is born and do a DNA test,that is the only way

smoothy
Jul 28, 2012, 06:21 AM
And any date they give you will be plus or minus two weeks. That means ANYONE you slept with that ENTIRE month might be the father.