NeedSomeHelp123
Jul 17, 2012, 11:28 AM
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years until April, he decided to break up with me. He said he needed space and time for himself. However, 3 weeks later he had another girlfriend. I took this extremely badly and went out with friends partying a lot to try and take my mind off everything. I ended up having a one night stand with a man I met. Now my ex-boyfriend has came back to me and said he has left that woman and loves me and wants to be with me and now realises that he made a mistake.
I truly believe that we are soul mates and I love him more than words can say. He asked if I had seen anyone else or had slept with anyone else through the time we had been apart and I immediately said no. I completely regret this now but at the time I could not face maybe losing him again.
However we have been back together for a week now and I am starting to think about the one night stand and realise he needs to know. Also the man I had a one night stand with is friends with a couple of my boyfriends mates which makes me a fool for thinking I could try and forget it as it will most likely get back to him if I tell him or not.
Please tell me how to deal with this? How do I tell him? Not only that I had a one night stand with a random man, but that I lied to him as well. Or do I tell him at all and hope he does not find out?
HELP PLEASE!
I truly believe that we are soul mates and I love him more than words can say. He asked if I had seen anyone else or had slept with anyone else through the time we had been apart and I immediately said no. I completely regret this now but at the time I could not face maybe losing him again.
However we have been back together for a week now and I am starting to think about the one night stand and realise he needs to know. Also the man I had a one night stand with is friends with a couple of my boyfriends mates which makes me a fool for thinking I could try and forget it as it will most likely get back to him if I tell him or not.
Please tell me how to deal with this? How do I tell him? Not only that I had a one night stand with a random man, but that I lied to him as well. Or do I tell him at all and hope he does not find out?
HELP PLEASE!