I fell in love with this wonderful man that enjoys gay and bi porn. He gets very upset whenever I try to talk to him about his past. He says that I know enough.

When we watch gay/bi porn and guys are f***ing each other, he calls them "bad boys". I feel that he would like to also have a guy do him. I use a strap-on with him and he loves it. He tells me that it doesn't take away from our wonderful sex life and that is true.

I grew up baptist and somewhat sheltered. I organize us getting together with guys and then most of the time regret it. He wants to watch me mess with others guys and I tell him that I only do it for him. And that's TRUE. If he wants to share me with guys that's one thing, but I will not share him with any other woman. He's not into anal when we hook up with guys, but I still think he would like to have it up his by a guy.

I don't know what to do....we love each other and have a great sex life. I guess if it was interferring in our sex between each other it would be a different story.

I would like to hear what others think. Thanks

It's not what "WE" think that matters. It's what YOU think that does. Are you happy? Are you comfortable?

It's not what "WE" think that matters. It's what YOU think that does. Are you happy? Are you comfortable?

I second that. Because it can't be more true.