ntrella19
Jul 14, 2012, 05:12 PM
Hello,
I have been talking to this guy for over four months and everything was great until he recently told me that we need to "cool off" because he is training to deploy at the end of the year. He is a Navy Seal and is life is extremely busy at the moment. He was the one really into me and chasing after me in the beginning and when I finally came on board and started to believe this might just work, he pulled the cool off card. I was cheated on in the past and it continues to still haunt me. I feel that every guy is going to do the same, therefore when I don't hear from a guy in a few days I tend to to over text. Which I did in this instance. I don't know what to do or think. I asked him if he wanted me to totally delete him and he said no, we just need to cool off. Can someone give me some insight or advice as to all this. I haven't called him all week and he has done the same. Should I let this one go or wait sometime and contact him?
I have been talking to this guy for over four months and everything was great until he recently told me that we need to "cool off" because he is training to deploy at the end of the year. He is a Navy Seal and is life is extremely busy at the moment. He was the one really into me and chasing after me in the beginning and when I finally came on board and started to believe this might just work, he pulled the cool off card. I was cheated on in the past and it continues to still haunt me. I feel that every guy is going to do the same, therefore when I don't hear from a guy in a few days I tend to to over text. Which I did in this instance. I don't know what to do or think. I asked him if he wanted me to totally delete him and he said no, we just need to cool off. Can someone give me some insight or advice as to all this. I haven't called him all week and he has done the same. Should I let this one go or wait sometime and contact him?